用100种方法说我爱你

Whether you’ve decided its finally time to say I love you, or you’ve been together for awhile now and looking for ways to keep the romance fresh and exciting, we’ve put together 100 Ways to Say I Love You that you’ll be sure to enjoy.
无论是你觉得已经终于到了表白“我爱你”的时候，还是你们已经在一起了一段时间，正想办法保持浪漫、新鲜感和激情，我们提供了100种说我爱你的方式，相信你会喜欢。

1. With Kisses: Nothing says I love you like a kiss! Kiss them when you say hello, when you say goodbye, in the middle of the day for no reason at all. You can kiss them on the lips, on the cheek, on the forehead…it’s up to you where!

2. With Hugs: It’s true, most partners do not give each other enough hugs. So the next time you feel like telling your partner you love them, give them a giant bear hug.

3. With a Back rub: I’ve never met anyone who would refuse a backrub – another great way to say I love you without words!
1.吻：没有什么比一个吻更能表达我爱你了！当你们见面问好的时候吻她（原文为什么总在这种地方用them？受不了了……另，本着“爱情中应该男性主动”的传统观念，此类地方统一用“她”了），告别说再见的时候吻她，一天中间任何时候不需要任何理由，吻她！你可以亲吻她的嘴唇、脸颊、额头……任何地方，由你决定！
2.拥抱：这是真的：大多数的爱人之间都缺乏足够的拥抱。所以，下一次你想告诉你的伴侣你爱她的时候，给他一个结实的拥抱吧！
3.抚背：我还没听说过那个人拒绝被抚摸后背（或者译为拍脊梁）的呢——这也是一个无声的表达我爱你的好方法。


4. In a Poem: Whether you decide to write a haiku (see these haiku examples from one of my favorite haiku writers) or write another style on your own, a poem is a great way to express how you feel about someone.

4.诗：不管你打算写俳句还是其他什么属于你自己的格式，诗歌永远都是表达对一个人的感情的好方法。

5. In a Journal: Keeping a journal is easy. All you need is a notebook and a pen and write your feelings about the person. Unlike most journals though, this is one to share with your partner!
5.日记：坚持写日记并不难，你只需要一个本子和一支笔记录下你对那个人的感觉就好。跟一般的日记不同的是，这本日记要和爱人分享。

6. On a T-shirt: You can make your own t-shirt using t-shirt iron on transfer paper or head over to a site like Spreadshirt.com and design your own Custom T-Shirts.
6.T恤：你可以用烫印纸自己做T恤，也可以到Spreadshirt.com之类的网站上去订购个性化T恤。

7. With Love Notes: Love notes are an easy simple way to say i love you to someone. Check out our post 55 Unique Places to Leave Love Notes for more inspiration.
7.纸条：爱情小纸条是一种简便易行的表达爱意的方法。看看我们以前的文章“55个放置爱情纸条的地方”吧，也许能给你更多灵感。


8. With Cheerios: If you have Cheerios or some other type of small food that would work also, why not write the words “i love you” with them on a table or in one of their favorite dishes?

8.麦圈：如果你吃麦圈，或者其他小零食也行，为什么不用它们在桌子上或者她最喜欢的菜里摆成“我爱你”的字样呢？

9. By sharing the chores: This is my favorite way to say i love you – help your partner with the chores around the house, from washing dishes to vacuuming to doing the laundry, your partner will be sure to appreciate it!
9.分担家务：这是我最喜欢的表爱方法——跟你的爱人分享家务，从洗碗到吸尘到洗衣服，你爱人一定会很高兴的。


10. In a Picture: A picture is worth a thousand words, or so they say at least. Find a picture that shows how much you love them and share it with them. You can see that you don’t have to learn how to draw to make something that is meaningful.

10.图画：一张图片能顶上一千句话，或者，也有人说，最少一千句。找一张能表明你有多么爱她的画跟她一起欣赏吧！

11. In a collage: Collages are great ways to express yourself, so why not say I love you in a collage? All you will need is one piece of paper and magazine cut outs of anything related to your partner and relationship. Glue them all together onto the sheet of paper and you’ll have a great collage to show how much you love him or her!
11.拼贴：拼贴是表情达意的绝佳方法，为什么不用来说爱你呢？你只需要一张纸还有从杂志上剪下来所有只要能代表你的心上人或者你们之间的关系的东西，把它们全都贴到纸上你就拥有一个可以告诉她你有多爱她的绝佳的拼贴了！


12. With Flowers: There’s never a bad time to share flowers! They are always a nice welcome surprise. If you really want to make a statement, give him or her something unique and original instead of the usual roses.

12.鲜花：没有哪个时候不适合送花的！它们永远是深受欢迎的惊喜。如果你确实想搞点创意，就别送平常的玫瑰，换点特别的、独创性的花吧！

13. With Something Sweet: If your partner likes sweets or cookies, surprising them with something is always a guaranteed way to say that you love them. You could get personalized candy, bake cupcakes, or whatever it is you think they’ll like.
13.甜品：如果你的爱人喜欢吃甜点或者曲奇饼，用这些东西给她一个惊喜是表达你爱她的一种万无一失的方法。你可以买些个性化的糖果，或者烤一个纸杯蛋糕，或者其它任何你觉得她会喜欢的东西都行。

14. Watch the kids for them: If you are married and have kids, there’s nothing better than telling your partner you’ll watch the kids for the next hour, why don’t they go relax? Or, surprise your partner with a babysitter for a few hours while the two of you go out and do something fun together.
14.看孩子：如果你们已经结婚并且有了孩子，在没有什么比这句话更能表达我爱你了：下一个小时我看孩子，你去歇着吧。

15. By Cooking Dinner: Making a nice dinner for them is another way to show you care and are thinking about them, especially if they are too tired to cook or it is one of their favorite dishes. Can’t cook? You can always order take-out!
15.做饭：做一顿丰盛的饭餐是另一种表达你关心她体贴她的方法，特别是在她累的不想做饭的时候或者是做她最喜欢吃的菜。不会做饭？叫外卖总会吧！

16. Etched in Glass: It’s not hard to etch something in glass with a stencil and glass etching cream. You’ll be surprised how easy it is, and they’ll be surprised at your creativity!
16.玻璃刻画：在玻璃上刻东西并不难，用模子和玻璃蚀刻乳就能做到。试一试，你肯定会惊喜原来它这么容易，而你的她肯定会惊喜原来你这么有创意！

17. With a Special Song Mix: Burn a few of your favorite love songs or songs to a CD that have a special meaning to you and your partner. Need ideas on how to label a CD? You can write on it with marker, or print a special label out of your computer. You can even give it a special cover too!
17.歌曲串烧：把你最喜欢的爱情歌曲刻进一张对你和你的爱人有特殊意义的CD里吧。想知道怎样包装CD吗？你可以用彩笔写字、用电脑印一个特别的标识，甚至做一个别开生面的CD套。

18. Have Someone Else Tell Them: Could you imagine the look on your partner’s face if your best friend or mother sat down and told them how much you love them? It’d definitely be a surprise and hopefully they’ll be glad to hear that you’ve told someone else how much you love them too!
18.借他人之口：你能想象到当你最好的朋友或者你妈妈坐在你心爱的人面前告诉她你有多爱她时她会有什么表情吗？这绝对会是一个惊喜，而且她应该也很高兴知道你已经把对她的爱告诉别人了。

19. Say it in Another Language: Why not try telling him or her you love them in another language? There are many online translators available to help you convert anything into a different language. Te amo for example means I love you in Spanish.
19.借他国之言：为什么不试试用外语告诉她你的爱呢？网上有很多翻译工具，可以帮你把任何东西翻译成另一种语言。比如说，西班牙语的我爱你就是“Te amo”。

20. Say Thanks: Showing your appreciation to your partner for all that they do is a great way to show your care.
20.说谢谢：表现出你对于你的爱人为你做的一切很感激，是一种很好的表达关爱地方法。

21. From the Top of a Mountain: Go the highest point you can find around your house and scream from the top of your lungs “I love this girl!” (or guy!)
21.在山顶：登上你家附近的最高点，用你最大的声音发自肺腑的喊：我爱这个女孩！

22. With the Lawn Mower: You can write the words I love you with your lawn mowers in your yard if you let the grass grow high enough for a few weeks.
22.用割草机：等几个星期，让你的草长到足够的高度，然后你就可以用割草机在你的后院里写出“我爱你”了。

23. In a Bottle: Write Your Partner a message in a bottle for them to find and open.
23.瓶子：把你要对爱人说的话写张字条装在瓶子里，等她找到、打开……

24. With Your Pets: Have a dog or cat? You can attach a message around their collar for your partner to find.
24.利用宠物：家里养着只小猫或小狗吗？你可以把字条拴在她的项圈上，等你的爱人发现。

25. With a Text Message: Text messages only take a few minutes to send, so if you don’t text your partner often, why not send them a text message?
25.短信：发个短信只需要短短几秒钟，如果你不常给你的爱人发短信，为什么不试一下呢？

26. In a crowd: If you’re in a busy park or street in the city, there’s no shame in proclaiming your love to your partner in front of others.
26.在人群中：如果你们正在拥挤的公园或者城市的大街上，请别害羞，在大庭广众之下宣布你爱她吧。

27. Say it on a Screensaver: Assuming your partner won’t mind, you can change their computer desktop background or put a special screen saver on his or her computer to say i love you for you.
27.屏幕保护：如果你的爱人不介意的话，你可以改一下她的电脑桌面或者做一个特别的屏幕保护程序来替你说“我爱你”。

28. Kidnap Them: If you know your partner has nothing to do on a certain day, why not kidnap them and surprise them with a special getaway? You can go on a romantic picnic or escape to a nearby park or other local attraction.
28.“绑架”：如果你知道你的爱人某一天没有事，为什么不“绑架”她一下，用特殊的出游给她一个惊喜呢？你们可以来个浪漫野餐，或者远离喧闹躲到附近的公园或者其他好地方。

29. Warm their car up for them: If chilly weather makes your car parked outside too cold, you could go out there and brave the cold to start the car for them (and if it snowed, even clear it off for them!) Don’t like braving the cold? Maybe a remote starter kit would be a nice surprise?
29.发动汽车：如果滴水成冰的天气让你们停在户外的汽车太冷了，你可以出去勇敢的面对严寒帮她发动汽车（如果是下雪了，顺便帮她把车上的雪清理掉！）不想面对严寒？那就买个遥控启动仪做惊喜吧！

30. While you’re watching a Movie Together: Next time you’re snuggling up to a romantic movie you can whisper it in their ear halfway through or during a romantic scene.
30.一起看电影时：下一次，当你们依偎在一起看爱情片时，你可以在演到某个浪漫的场景时悄悄在她耳边说……

31. Bring Them Coffee: Anytime you bring your partner one of their favorite drinks it reminds them how much you care.
31.端杯咖啡（中国化一点我是不是该译成端茶倒水？）：不管什么时候，给她端上一杯她最喜欢的饮料都能提醒她你有多在乎她。

32. By Listening to Them: Listening to your partner without interrupting, getting distracted, or critcizing them is a great way to say i love you to someone.
32.倾听：认真听你的爱人说话，不要打断、不要走神、不要反驳，这是对一个人说我爱你的绝佳方式。

33. With a Secret Phrase: The duck quacks at midnight…Creating a secret way to tell your partner you love them can be fun, especially since no one else will know what you’re talking about but each other. Be creative!
33.暗号：鸭子在半夜嘎嘎叫……想一个秘密的方法来告诉你的爱人你有多爱她是一件有趣的事情，特别是除了你俩没人知道你们在说什么的时候。发挥想象力吧！

34. In a cake: Think of those old prison movies when they would bake a cake with something in it…you could do this or write a special message in icing on the top.
34 蛋糕：想想在那些以前的表现监狱生活的电影里面，人们常常把一些东西加载蛋糕里相互传递……你也可以这么办，或者用糖霜在蛋糕上面写字也行。

35. With an Interpretive Dance: Okay, so maybe interpretive dancing isn’t for you…but you could ask them to dance with you, even if there is no music playing or if you are standing in the living room.
35.交谊舞：嗯，可能你并不擅长交谊舞，但这并不妨碍你让你的爱人陪你跳，没有音乐也不要紧，就在你家客厅里也不要紧。

36. With Tools: Did you notice your honey lost or broke his diamond drill bit? Maybe they just need a tool they don’t have. Why not get them a new one next time you are out at the store?
36.工具：你的爱人的金刚石钻头丢了或者坏了，你发现了吗？或许他正需要一件工具却没有呢，下次你路过商店的时候给他买件新的吧！（这个比较适合女对男哈，我就用“他”啦~~）

37. In flames: I don’t really know how to do this safely, but if you can figure it out, why not write them a message in flames? (I hold no responsibility if you attempt this. Please check with your fire department before proceeding!)
37.火焰：我还不知道怎样才能安全的做到，不过如果你能想到办法，为什么不用火焰给她写一句话呢？（你要试出什么问题来我可不负责啊……最好使用前先检查一下火灾保险上好了没……）

38. On a Tattoo: Just remember: Tattoos are forever. You could also make your own temporary tattoo. Sharpie markers, body paints, and pens work well for writing on your skin too. (Just make sure they’re non-toxic and you’re not allergic to it!)
38.文身：记住：文身是永久的。你也可以自己做出些暂时的文身，用马克笔、体绘颜料或者钢笔在身上写字也挺好的。（务必确保你用的东西没有毒，而且不会让你过敏）

39. Say it in Sand: There’s nothing more romantic at the beach than to write your names in hearts in the sand or the words I love you. No beach nearby? You could always fill up a kiddie pool with sand and do the same.
39.写在沙滩上：没有什么比在沙滩上画个心形里面写上你们的名字或者“我爱你”更浪漫的事了。你家附近没有沙滩吗？你总能找到孩子玩的沙坑吧？

40. On a puzzle: Have a puzzle loving partner? Write a special message on the back of a puzzle or mail them one piece of a puzzle at a time.
40.拼图：你的爱人是个拼图迷吗？在拼图的背面写上你特别的话，或者把拼图拆开每次寄给她一块。

41. On a Balloon: You can either choose to blow up a balloon and write a message for them to discover when they blow it up or hand them one where you’ve stuffed a special message inside it.
41.气球：你可以把气球吹开，把要说的话写在气球上然后再放掉气，等她再吹开的时候就会发现了；或者把纸条塞进气球里送给她。

42. In a Song: You don’t need to learn guitar to write and sing a song (though it could help!) It’s the thought that counts, so don’t worry about what your song sounds like. There’s plenty of bad music in myspace and youtube (myself included actually) – so there’s no need to be self conscious!
42.歌曲：你也不必非得学会弹吉他才能自己创作一首歌唱给她（当然，会肯定更好！）不过重要的是你有这个想法，大可不必担心你的歌听起来怎么样，myspace和youtube网站上有好多糟糕的原创歌曲呢（其实也有我的）——所以，没必要自我怀疑啦。

43. In a video: Who doesn’t love videos? You can use your web cam or get a video camera to make a video pledging your love for him or her. No video camera? You could always prepare a slide show of pictures set to some of your favorite music.
43.视频：谁不喜欢看视频呢？你可以用你的摄像头或者摄像机拍一段视频，在其中信誓旦旦地表达你爱他/她。没有摄像机吗？做一组幻灯片或者图片也行啊，用你最喜欢的歌做背景音乐吧。


44. Say I love you with a quote: Lost for words? Let somebody else say it better! Check out our Romantic Movie Quotes and Quotes on Kissing for some inspiration.

44.引言：想不出浪漫的语句了吗？看看别人是怎么说的吧！可以看看我们以前的文章《爱情电影经典语录》和《与亲吻有关的语录》来启发灵感。


45. Make a Hanging Mobile: You can hang your love for someone with a romantic hanging mobile! Get Directions and a Free Printout Here

45.悬挂饰物：你可以把你对某人的爱情挂在一个浪漫的吊饰上！这个网站可以给你指导还能免费印制。（原文此处为网页链接）


46.Mark Your Love on a Calendar: Does your partner rely on a calendar? Write in “I love you day” on a few of the days to make them extra special.

46.在日历上标出你的爱：你心爱的人每天看日历吗？在一些日子上标出“我爱你日”让它们变得格外与众不同吧。

47. Make a List: Chances are you have more than one reason to say I love you, so why not make a list of ways you love the person and give it to him or her?
47.列个清单：你很可能有不止一个理由来说“我爱你”，为什么不把所有你爱她的理由列一个清单送给她呢？

48. Give Them a Tree of Love: You can get artificial miniature trees and attach small gifts or reasons you love the person or anything else romantic you want to. I once was given a white Christmas tree as a present with money attached to it – one of the best presents ever!
48.送一颗爱情树：你可以买一棵小的模型树，在上面挂上一些小礼物和你爱她的原因还有其他你认为浪漫的东西。我曾经收到一棵白色的圣诞树，上面挂着钱——这是我收到的最好的礼物之一了。

49. Throw a Party: You can hold a special party for your love to celebrate how much you love them. Invite friends and family, or you can have a romantic party just the two of you. Don’t forget the streamers and maybe a giant “I Love You” banner.
49.办一个派对：你可以为你爱的人举办一场特殊的聚会来庆祝你多么爱她。你可以邀请你们的朋友和亲人，也可以来个浪漫的两人聚会。别忘了装饰彩带，还可以用上一个大大的“I Love You”横幅。

50. Write Your Love Story: A love story can be as simple or as complex as you want it to be. Our post on Writing Your Love Story is full of ideas.
50.创造自己的爱情故事：你的爱情故事要多简单或者多复杂全由你自己说了算。我们过去的文章“写作你自己的爱情故事”提供了很多相关的构思。

51. Show Interest in Their Hobbies: Maybe they like something that bores you. But showing a genuine interest in their hobbies or activities is a great way for you to connect more and show that you love them.
51.对她的爱好表示兴趣：也许有些她喜欢的东西让你觉得很无聊，但是对她的爱好显示出真正的兴趣是个很好的与她增进联系并表示你爱她的方法。

52. Give Them a Compliment: Telling your partner he or she looks beautiful or cute (or whatever terms that are appropriate for your relationship) is an easy additional way to say I love you. You could also compliment them on something like “Honey, you did a great job on dinner tonight” or “Wow! That bathroom you painted looks awesome!”
52.赞扬她：告诉你的爱人她长得很漂亮或者很可爱（或者其它你觉得根据你们的关系可以用的词）是个很简单的说我爱你的方式。你也可以表扬她说：“宝贝，你今晚的晚餐做得太好了”或者“哇哦！你油漆的盥洗室看起来帅呆了！”

53. Make a Sign: You can wear it sandwich board style or hang a banner across the door to greet them when they get home. Maybe a sign on their car or bedroom door. Wherever you put the sign doesn’t matter – what matters is that it shows your partner you were thinking of them!
53.做一个标识牌：你可以把它做成夹板广告的样子或者在门口挂一条横幅来欢迎她回家。亦可以做个标牌放在她的车上或者卧室门上。牌子到底挂在哪儿并不重要-重要的是它能告诉你的爱人你心里想着她。

54. Send Them Snail Mail: Most people when they open their mailbox are bombarded by bills and junk mail. Wouldn’t it be nice to get a romantic letter instead?
54.寄信：大多数人打开信箱的时候都只能收到账单和垃圾邮件的狂轰乱炸。如果能是一封浪漫的来信，岂不是感觉很棒？

55. Send an E-Card: If snail mail is too slow for you, you can send romantic e-cards instantly. With hundreds of romantic ecards out there, you’re sure to find one that’s just the right way to say I love you.
55.电子贺卡：如果你觉得寄信太慢了，你可以发送一封浪漫的电子贺卡来代替。网上有那么多浪漫的贺卡可选，你肯定能找到最适合你用来表达爱意的那一张！

56. Say it Upside Down: If you’re athletically inclined, take your partner to a park and hang upside down from the monkey bars and say “Hey! I love you even when I’m upside down!”
56.倒立着说：如果你有点运动细胞，你可以带你的爱人到公园里去，在云梯上来个头朝下然后告诉她：你看，即使我头朝下了我也依然爱你的！

57. Say it The cheesiest Way You Know: Take 1 block of cheese (can be their favorite kind or whatever you’ve got – all that matters is that it is cheese) and then attach a note which says “This is the cheesiest way I can think of to say I love you!”
57.最“廉价”的方法：取一块乳酪（她最喜欢的味道或者随便什么--只要是奶酪就行），附上一张纸条：“这是我想到的最廉价的说我爱你的方法”。

（注：英语中cheesiest意为廉价的，不值钱的，此处采用双关和幽默）

58. Just Saying Hi: A quick phone call to your partner when you are away is a great way to just say hi and ask them how their day is going.
58.简单的问候：当你不在她身边的时候，记得给她打个电话，就简单的问候一句，问问她今天过得怎么样。

59. Publicly Humiliation: Nothing says I love you like some good old fashioned public humiliation. Have someone announce it over a loud speaker at an office or store, serenade them while you eat dinner at a restaurant (even if it is McDonald’s), put it on a billboard, air a tv commercial. (okay, so maybe we’re getting a little overboard here) – but you get the point.
59.当众“羞辱”：老掉牙的当众让她害羞其实是一种无可比拟的示爱方式。你可以在办公室或者商店的大喇叭里大声播放通知，在共进晚餐时给她点一首乐曲（即使是在麦当劳也行），把示爱的话写在广告牌上，或者在广播或电视里做个广告，（好吧，可能说的有点过了），不过你明白我的意思了吧！

60. Hide it in a Book: Find a book or magazine you know your partner will read and write or tape a note that tells them you’re thinking of them. Alternatively you could underline a section and say something romantic based on what the book is about, depending on the book of course. If it’s intro to accounting for example, you could write “all the math i need to know is me + u = love”.
60.藏在书里：找一本你确定你的爱人肯定会看的书或者杂志，在里面写张纸条或贴张便签告诉她你在想她。你也可以划出一些句子或者在页边写些浪漫的话，当然，要根据这本书的内容而定。比如说这是本介绍会计学的书，你可以写上：关于数学，所有我所需要知道的只有“我+你=爱情”。

61. Let Them Teach You Something: It’s always a huge ego boost when you ask your partner to teach you how to do something. It doesn’t matter what it is, as long as its something you can show genuine interest in learning.
61.让她教你点什么：当你要求你的爱人教你如何去做某件事时，一定会使她的虚荣心得到极大地满足。是什么事情都无所谓，只要是你表现出真诚的兴趣想去学的就可以。

62. Give Them a Lucky Charm: Give your partner something lucky to carry with them and remind them of you. It could be something to put in their wallet or something to put on their keychain.
62.送她一个幸运物：送你的爱人一件幸运物让她随身携带并在看到的时候就想起你。可以使能放在钱包里或者挂在钥匙链上的小东西。

63. Give Them Undivided Attention: Tell your partner they will get your undivided attention for 1 hour. They can talk to you about anything or do anything they want with you.
63.全神贯注：告诉你的爱人，在接下来的一个小时里，你除了她什么别的事都不考虑。她想和你说什么都行，也可以和你一起去做任何她想做的事。

64. Tuck Them In at Night: It’s always comforting when somebody pulls the blankets up over you and kisses you good night.
64.晚上帮她盖好被子：临睡前帮她盖上被子，亲吻她说晚安永远是一件很能抚慰人的事情。

65. Trust Your Partner and Be Trustworthy: Being able to trust your partner is very important. Give your partner trust, and they will likely return that trust to you. Once their trust is earned, don’t ever screw it up.
65.信任你的爱人，自己也要值得信任：能够信任你爱的人是非常重要的，你信任她，她也更可能会同样信任你。一旦你已经得到了她的信任，千万别再让她失望。

66. Remember the Good Times: Make a list of your favorite memories with your partner and share them with him or her.
66.回忆美好的时光：把你们在一起最快乐的记忆列成清单并和爱人分享。

67. Hold Hands: Hand holding is one of the most intimate ways to connect with one another. Take any chance you have to hold his or her hand!
67.牵手：牵手是最亲密的联络感情的方法之一。抓住所有的机会握住她的手吧！

68. Have a Hooky Day: Playing hooky means all your responsibilities for the day get tossed out the window. You can call/request off work or skip whatever you usually do on most days. Instead do something fun together, even if it just means laying in bed together all day.
68.逃学日：逃学游戏就是说在这一天，你们所有的责任都被扔到窗外去。你们可以请假不去工作，旷掉所有你平日里每天要做的事，而一起去做一些好玩的事情，甚至就一起在床上躺一整天也行。

69. Take a Romantic Bubble Bath: What could be better than you and your partner in a hot tub surrounded with bubbles?
69.浪漫的泡泡浴：想想你和你的爱人在温暖的浴缸里被泡泡包围着的感觉，你还能想到更好的时刻吗？

70. Take Photos of Each Other: You can make this sexy or silly – but taking pictures of each other is a great way to spend time having fun together and telling each other that you love each other.
70.互相拍照：可以拍性感照片，也可以拍傻乎乎的样子——不管怎样，互相拍照是两人一起快乐并表达爱意的好方法。

71. Share Ice Cream Out of One Bowl: Sharing ice cream is a lost art that many people have never discovered. Get a bowl or a pint of your favorite kind and dig in with two spoons.
71.分吃同一杯冰激凌：很多人都不知道，分吃冰激凌其实是一门艺术。买一杯或者一品脱你们最喜欢的口味，用两把勺子一起吃光它。

72. Make an “About Me” Report: Many times we feel like our partners don’t really know us. You can impress your partner if you can answer things like their favorite colors, foods, happiest memories, biggest accomplishments, recent news, etc. etc.
72.做个自我汇报：很多时候我们会觉得爱人并不真正了解自己。如果你能回答她的问题，比如她最喜欢的颜色、食物，最快乐的记忆，最大的成功，最新的新闻等等，一定会令她印象深刻的。

73. Anticipate Their Moves: When you are with someone for a long time, you know what they will want or need without them even asking. Maybe its as simple as passing them the pepper when they’re eating Mac & Cheese or turning on their favorite TV show without them asking it.
73.猜测她的举动：当你和她在一起较长时间之后，你应该不需要她开口就知道她想要或者需要什么。可能就简单到当她吃Mac&cheese的时候递给她胡椒粉或者不用她开口就帮她换到她最喜欢的电视节目。

74. Get Healthy: The healthier you are, the longer you will be around to love someone! You can lose weight for free, stop a bad habit such as quit drinking, or practice safety habits. Encourage your partner to do the same. (Just don’t tell him or her that he or she is fat! That won’t go over too well!)
74.保持健康：你越健康，就有越长的时间可以在她身边爱她！你可以减减肥，戒掉一个坏习惯（比如戒酒），或者换一个更安全的爱好。鼓励你爱的人也这样做。（不过别对她说她很胖，那不会有好效果的！）

75. Love Their Family: In-Laws are notoriously difficult to get along with. But if you show respect to their family and traditions, it can say a lot about how much you love a person!
75.爱她的家人：岳父岳母或者公公婆婆是众所周知的不好相处。不过如果你能对她的家人和他们的习惯表示尊重，会很能说明你有多么爱她！

76. Make Breakfast or Go on a Breakfast Date: Breakfast is the most important meal of the day – and its also the most likely to be skipped or rushed! Making breakfast or going out for a cup of coffee and a muffin can be a special way to show someone you want to take out time in your busy day to be with them.
76.为她做早餐或相约一起出去吃：早餐时一天中最重要的一顿——也是最容易被跳过不吃或者胡乱应付的一顿。给她做顿早餐或者一起出去喝杯咖啡吃点松饼不失为一种特别的方法表示你愿意在繁忙的一天中抽出一段时间和她在一起。

77. Draw a Picture: It doesn’t matter how artistic you are, anyone can draw a simple picture to say how much you love someone – even if it is just with stick figures and hearts and stars!
77.画一副画：无论你有没有艺术细胞，每个人都能画一幅简单的图画来表达你有多爱那个人——甚至只画线条小人、爱心和星星也行！

78. Flirt Vivaciously: Flirting doesn’t have to be reserved for just when you first meet. Go ahead and act like he or she doesn’t know you like him or her yet.
78.活泼地调情：调情不只是在你们第一次见面时的专用。你可以持续用它，假装好像她还不知道你喜欢她一样。

79. Define what love means to you: Sometimes the word love is used so loosely it loses its meaning. Explain what love means to you to your partner – and why you’re so glad you’ve found it with them.
79.定义爱情对你意味着什么：有时候，“爱”这个词被用的太多太滥了，以至于甚至失去了它的价值。告诉你的爱人爱对你来说意味着什么——并且告诉她为什么你这样高兴能和她一起找到爱情。

80. Write it in a Cryptic Message: Write a message of love using a secret code. Give them the key and let them decipher the message. (You could also write is backwards and tell them to hold it up in front of a mirror)
80.使用密码：把你要说的话用密码写出来，告诉她方法让她去破译。（你也可以反着写字，然后告诉她站在镜子前面去看）。

81. Practice Random Acts of Kindness: Showing you love someone is more important than saying I love you, which is why practicing random acts of kindness is important. Hold doors, pull out chairs, offer an umbrella when its raining, etc.
81.无意中的举手之劳：在实际行动中表现出爱比说“我爱你”更重要，所以学会在不经意间做出举手之劳是很重要的。帮她开门，拉出椅子，在下雨时撑伞，等等，都属于此类。

82. Show Your Vulnerable Side: Showing your vulnerable side to your partner means that you completely trust them and are comfortable with them. So go ahead and tell them a secret, your deepest feelings, or anything they can use against you as blackmail.
82.不要隐藏你的脆弱：在你爱的人面前表现出脆弱的一面说明你完全信任她并且很愿意和她在一起。所以，不要再犹豫了，告诉她你的秘密，你内心深处的感觉，或者其它什么她可以用了勒索你的事情。

83. Love Their Faults: Nobody is perfect and everybody makes mistakes. If you can make light of their short comings and show you love them even if they can’t spell or be on time or whatever else it is that they’re really bad at, it means you love them for all of them – not just the good stuff.
83.爱她的缺点：没有人是完美的，谁都会犯错误。如果你能不在乎她的缺点，表现出即使她不会拼写，常常迟到或者不擅长什么这个那个你也依然爱她，这就能证明你是爱她的全部，而不只是优点。

84. Tell Them How Happy You Are: Telling your partner how happy you are will make them feel like they are partly responsible for that, even though we all know happiness shouldn’t be dependent on someone else.
84.告诉她你很高兴：告诉你爱的人你很快乐会让她觉得她是原因之一，尽管我们都知道快乐是不依赖于别人的。

85. Clean Up After Yourself: Nobody likes the role of the “maid” – if you spill something on the floor, clean it up! Put your towels away, the dishes away, etc. etc. If you don’t act like a slob, your partner will never resent you.
85.收拾好你的摊子：没有人喜欢做“女佣”——如果你把什么东西洒在地板上了，自己把它打扫干净。把你打毛巾挂好，盘子放回厨房，等等等等。如果你不表现得像个懒虫，你的爱人就不会对你生气了。

86. Give Them the Last One: If you and your partner both enjoy something and there’s only one left, let them have it. There’s a good chance they’ll share it with you anyway, but even if they don’t they’ll appreciate your selflessness.
86.把最后一个留给她：如果你和你的爱人都喜欢某样东西，而现在只剩下一个了，留给她吧。不管怎么说，她还是很有可能和你分享的，即使她没有，她也一定很感激你的无私。

87. Put Their Needs Ahead of Your Own: When you put your partner’s needs ahead of your own (and they do the same) you both selflessly say to one another that you love each other and look out for one another.

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88. Know When to Apologize: Saying you’re sorry can go a long way, even if you don’t necessarily think you did anything wrong or agree. Sometimes just saying you’re sorry is enough to make any problems blow over.
87.先考虑她，后考虑你自己：当你把爱人的需求放在自己之前的时候（她也会这样做的），你们表现出了无私的爱和对对方的关心。

88.知道何时该道歉：一句“对不起”可以有很大的作用，即使你并不认为你做错了什么或者认同她的说法。有时候，只需要说一句抱歉的话就足够化解难题了。


89. Be Totally Goofy Together: Let your inner kid out and do something goofy. Have a pillow fight, jump on the bed, go sled riding. Whatever it is, it’ll be fun and show your partner that you love them enough to be completely goofy with them.

89.完全忘形：把你内心的那个淘气小孩释放出来，做点胡作非为的事。来一场枕头大战，跳着上床或者去滑雪橇。不管是什么事请，一定会很有趣并且让你爱的人知道你那么爱她，跟她在一起可以完全忘形。

90. Show Up for a Surprise Visit: It always made my day anytime my now husband would show up unexpectedly at my apartment or at work. Make sure its okay if its a work visit (you don’t want them getting in trouble with the boss!) or not at a time when they’d be incredibly busy. (If he worked in a restaurant for example, you would not want to show up at dinner rush!)
90.突然出现：我现在的丈夫以前常会在一天的任何时候突然出现在我的公寓或者单位。如果是去单位，要事先确定没有问题（你不想让她惹到她的老板吧!）,而且不要在她特别忙的时候去。（比如你的他在餐馆工作，就不要在晚餐时间去。）

91. Make a Scrapbook: Scrapbooks can be a fun way to remember good times or show how much you love somebody. You could also take all of your digital photos and turn them into a Photobook for you to keep and share for years to come.
91.剪贴簿：剪贴簿可以变成一种记录快乐时光和你对她的爱的有意思的方法。你也可以把你们所有的电子照片洗出来变成相册，留着在以后的几年中一起看。

92. Sing the ABC’s – Can you think of a reason you love your partner for every letter of the alphabet? A you’re adorable…B oh so Beautiful…You get the idea…
92.唱“字母歌”：你能为字母表上的每一个字母想出一个爱她的理由吗？A-你很可爱（adorable），B-很漂亮（beautiful）……明白了吗？

93. As Soon as You Wake Up: Waking up to someone saying “I Love You” is a lot better than “Hey! Get your butt out of bed the kids are late for school, I’m late for work, honey the toaster is on fire, etc. etc…”
93.早上醒来第一件事：醒来的第一句话说“我爱你”比说“快起来吧，孩子们上学要迟到了，我上班也快迟了，烤面包炉也热了，快起吧快起吧。。。”要好多了。

94. Ask How You Can Help: Sometimes our partners don’t want to ask for help but would gladly accept it if offered. A simple “is there anything you need?” can be an enormous way to say I love you.
94.主动提供帮助：有些时候，你的爱人可能不想开口要求帮助，但如果你主动提出，她会很乐意接受的。简单的一句“需要我帮忙吗？”是一个很好的表达我爱你的方法。

95. Put on a Puppet Show: If you’ve got stuffed animals laying around, pick them up and have them re-enact your love for one another.
95.木偶表演：如果你们身边有毛绒动物玩具，拿起它们用它们来再现你们之间的恩爱。

96. Cuddle: There is no such thing as too much cuddling. Snuggle in bed before saying goodnight, while you watch football on TV, or just on a lazy afternoon.
96.搂抱：相拥依偎这种事情永远不会嫌太多。你们可以在说晚安之前在床上依偎在一起，或者当你们一起看电视转播的足球赛时，或者就在随便一个慵懒的下午。

97. Ask Their Advice: It’s a huge compliment and ego booster to your partner if you ask for their opinion or advice on something. Don’t make it too tricky (Does this outfit make me look fat?) – but something like “do you think I should get a blue rug or a green rug?” makes them feel involved and as if their opinion matters.
97.征求她的意见：征求他对某事的意见或建议对你的爱人来说是一种很大的赞扬并能使他自信心大增。问题别太难回答（比如说：我穿着件外套是不是显得很胖？）——不过类似于“你觉得我应该买个蓝色的地毯还是绿色的？”这样的问题会让他觉得你把他当自己人，而且他的意见很重要。

98. Give Some TLC: Everybody has bad days from time to time or will get sick at some point or another. Give them some extra TLC on those days – some chicken soup, a cup of tea or hot chocolate, whatever it is that they need to cheer up or feel better.
98.温暖的关怀：每个人都可能有倒霉的日子或者生病的时候。在这些时候给予他们额外的温暖关怀——做些鸡汤，一杯热茶或热巧克力，或者其它什么能帮助他们快乐起来或者康复的东西。

99. Ask How They Are: It’s easy for partners to forget to ask each other how they are, even though they might ask complete strangers the same question out of habit. So before you start complaining or going into great detail about you, ask them “how was your day” or “how’s it going?” when you first see them.
99.问她最近可好：情侣之间很容易忘记互相问一句：你最近怎么样？尽管我们常常习惯性的这样问候完全陌生的人。所以，当你刚见到她时，在你开始发牢骚和絮叨你的事情之前，先问问对方“你今天可好？”或者“生活怎么样？”。

100. Give it Unconditionally: Unconditional love is probably the best thing in the whole world when it comes to love. It means no one expects anything in return and you will continue to love somebody even if it’s not all wine and roses all the time.
100.无条件的爱：无条件的爱可能是全世界的爱情中最好的一种。它意味着你并不期望什么回报，并且即使你们不能永远保持风花雪月的浪漫你也依然一直爱她。

Phew! What a list! Now that you have heard my 100 ways to say I love you, why not share your ideas in the comments below?
呼！这单子可真长！既然你已经听过我的100种说爱你的方法了，为什么不在评论中和大家分享一下你的创意呢？